
Where Were You, My Son?
2008, Hungarian. Directed by Róbert Alföldi.
Set in a large apartment in Hungary during the death throes of communism, obedient Andor lives with his eccentric mother, Rebeka, a once-celebrated stage actress-turned-recluse. After years of coexisting in a love-hate relationship marked by routine and possible incest, Andor brings home Eszter, a beautiful girl his own age. Her advances awaken Andor's repressed desires, the depths of which prove shocking. Opera director Robert Alfoldi renders this bizarre story in a melodramatic style, and veteran Hungarian stage star Dorottya Udvaros rises to the occasion. If you can imagine the intersecting area on a Venn diagram that includes Taxidermia and Sunset Blvd., that's where Where Were You, My Son? was born. The original title, Nyugalom, which translates to Tranquility, is ironic to say the least. ...over the-top...memorable...thunderous...sex and violins (Variety).
- Runtime
- 1h 55m
- Post-credits
- None listed
- Language
- Hungarian
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- Released
- 21 February 2008
- Original title
- Nyugalom
- Country
- Hungary
- Written by
- Betti Berényi, László Garaczi, Róbert Alföldi
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Where Were You, My Son? runs 115 minutes (1h 55m).
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Where Were You, My Son? isn’t streaming on any OTT platform in India yet; it released on 21 February 2008. (Checked 13 November 2026.)
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Who directed Where Were You, My Son??
Where Were You, My Son? (2008) was directed by Róbert Alföldi and stars Dorottya Udvaros, Zalán Makranczi, Dorka Gryllus.