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Movies like I'm Not Gay (2005)

The best movies like I'm Not Gay (2005) are The Boys in the Band (2020), The Object of My Affection (1998) and Maurice (1987). If I'm Not Gay hooked you, these 20 similar films are what to watch next, and every pick says why it matches.

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  1. The Boys in the Band (2020)

    At a birthday party in 1968 New York, a surprise guest and a drunken game leave seven gay friends reckoning with unspoken feelings and buried truths.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers

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  2. The Object of My Affection (1998)

    A pregnant New York social worker begins to develop romantic feelings for her gay best friend, and decides she'd rather raise her child with him, much to the dismay of her overbearing boyfriend.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers

  3. Maurice (1987)

    After his lover rejects him, Maurice attempts to come to terms with his sexuality within the restrictiveness of Edwardian society.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers

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  4. Eating Out 2: Sloppy Seconds (2006)

    How far would you go to get the person of your dreams? With the help of Gwen and Tiffani, Kyle pretends to be heterosexual in order to land Troy, the new guy (and nude model) who's turning the heads of both men and women. He soon finds himself joining the campus ex-gay support group and nabbing a girlfriend! Kyle's ex-boyfriend Marc is horrified at the plan and decides to pursue the confused Troy with his own tactic -- being his "out" gay self. Who will win Troy first?

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers

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  5. The Importance of Being Earnest (1952)

    Two young gentlemen living in 1890s England use the same pseudonym ('Ernest') on the sly, which is fine until they both fall in love with women using that name, which leads to a comedy of mistaken identities.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers

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  6. A Home at the End of the World (2004)

    Three friends form a bond over the year, Johnathan is gay, Clare is straight and Bobby is neither, instead he loves the people he loves. As their lives go on there is tension and tears which culminate in a strong yet fragile friendship between the three.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers

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  7. Your Friends & Neighbors (1998)

    Restless and unhappy, two couples get caught up in infidelity and deception. Barry is a sullen businessman married to Mary, a writer who is unsatisfied with their relationship. Mary begins an affair with Jerry, a smug theater professor and husband of her friend, Terri, who is also a writer. Adding to the adulterous mix are Cary, a callous doctor, and Cheri, an art-gallery assistant.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers

  8. Totally F***ed Up (1994)

    Gay, alienated Los Angeles teens have a hard time as their parents kick them out of their homes, they don’t have money, their lovers cheat, and they are harassed by gay-bashers.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers

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  9. My Policeman (2022)

    In the late 1990s, the arrival of elderly invalid Patrick into Marion and Tom’s home triggers the exploration of seismic events from 40 years previous: the passionate relationship between Tom and Patrick at a time when homosexuality was illegal.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers

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  10. The Secret Diaries of Miss Anne Lister (2010)

    A lesbian in the 1800s who keeps a detailed account of her life written in coded diaries attempts to live independently while juggling an affair with a married woman.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers

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  11. Zerophilia (2005)

    Luke, a young man insecure about his masculinity, discovers he's a Zerophiliac, with the ability to change sex at will. Join Luke as he journeys into the extraordinary world of Zerophilia where so many crazy questions arise, only one question matters: "Whom do you love?"

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers

  12. Love! Valour! Compassion! (1997)

    A group of gay friends spend summer weekends together at a lakeside house in upstate New York. As the season progresses and secrets begin to surface, the complex relationships within the group are sometimes strained and sometimes strengthened.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers

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  13. My Fake Boyfriend (2022)

    A young man in a tricky situation follows the advice of his unconventional best friend and uses social media to create a fake boyfriend to keep his awful ex-lover out of his life. But everything backfires when he meets the real love of his life, and breaking up with his fake boyfriend proves hard to do.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers

  14. The Clique (2008)

    A young girl tries to fit in with a clique of popular middle school girls after moving into the guest house of one of their homes.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers

  15. Upgraded (2024)

    Ana is an ambitious intern dreaming of a career in the art world while trying to impress her demanding boss Claire. When she's upgraded to first class on a work trip, she meets handsome Will, and Ana pretends to be her boss– a white lie that sets off a glamorous chain of events, romance and opportunity, until her fib threatens to surface.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers

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  16. Ricky Stanicky (2024)

    When three childhood best friends pull a prank gone wrong, they invent the imaginary Ricky Stanicky to get them out of trouble. Twenty years later, the trio still uses the nonexistent Ricky as a handy alibi for their immature behavior. But when their spouses and partners get suspicious and demand to finally meet the fabled Mr. Stanicky, the guilty trio decide to hire a washed-up actor and raunchy celebrity impersonator to bring him to life.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers

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  17. Dating Amber (2020)

    Eddie and Amber decide to stage a relationship in order to stop everyone speculating about their sexuality. Eddie is keen to follow his dad into the military, while Amber dreams of moving to the liberal hub of London. The plan seems solid, but as their arrangement begins to fall apart, Eddie’s denial gets deeper as Amber realizes that a perilous future awaits her best friend unless she intervenes.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers

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  18. D.E.B.S. (2005)

    The star of a team of teenage crime fighters falls for the alluring villainess she must bring to justice.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers

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  19. 4th Man Out (2015)

    After a night of drinking, Adam Hutcherson stumbles out of the closet to his three straight buddies. A disruption to their dynamic which they now must try and overcome through alcohol, Tinder dates and forgiveness.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers

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  20. Rent (2005)

    In New York City's gritty East Village, a group of bohemians strive for success and acceptance while enduring the obstacles of poverty, illness and the AIDS epidemic.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers

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Frequently asked questions

What are the best movies like I'm Not Gay?

The closest matches to I'm Not Gay are The Boys in the Band (2020), The Object of My Affection (1998) and Maurice (1987). Below are 17 more, each with the reason it matches.

What should I watch after I'm Not Gay?

Start with The Boys in the Band (2020), the closest match to I'm Not Gay.

What is the highest-rated movie like I'm Not Gay?

Maurice (1987), rated 7.6/10 by 642 TMDB users.

What is the newest movie like I'm Not Gay?

Ricky Stanicky (2024) is the most recent release on this list.

Are there English movies like I'm Not Gay?

Yes: The Boys in the Band (2020), The Object of My Affection (1998) and Maurice (1987).

How are movies similar to I'm Not Gay chosen?

First come films that Trakt’s viewers watch alongside I'm Not Gay, then TMDB’s recommendations and films it rates as similar in story and genre. Each pick says which signal put it there.

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