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Movies like The Way It Is (1982)

The best movies like The Way It Is (1982) are Divine Secrets of the Ya-Ya Sisterhood (2002), Boyhood (2014) and Here (2024). If The Way It Is hooked you, these 20 similar films are what to watch next, and every pick says why it matches.

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  1. Divine Secrets of the Ya-Ya Sisterhood (2002)

    In a sleepy Louisiana parish, a group of lifelong friends stage a rather unorthodox intervention to help a young playwright unravel the truth about her complicated mother and let go of her painful past.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers

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  2. Boyhood (2014)

    The film tells a story of a divorced couple trying to raise their young son. The story follows the boy for twelve years, from first grade at age 6 through 12th grade at age 17-18, and examines his relationship with his parents as he grows.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers

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  3. Here (2024)

    An odyssey through time and memory, centered on a place in New Jersey where—from wilderness, and then, later, from a home—love, loss, struggle, hope and legacy play out between couples and families over generations.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers

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  4. Bastard Out of Carolina (1996)

    A poor, struggling South Carolinian mother and daughter face painful choices with their resolve and pride. Bone, the eldest daughter, and Anney her tired mother, grow both closer and farther apart: Anney sees Glen as her last chance.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers

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  5. Nothing in Common (1986)

    A successful advertising executive finds his freewheeling life crashing to a halt when his parents end their longtime marriage.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers

  6. Remember Me (2010)

    Still reeling from a heartbreaking family event and his parents' subsequent divorce, Tyler Hawkins discovers a fresh lease on life when he meets Ally Craig, a gregarious beauty who witnessed her mother's death. But as the couple draws closer, the fallout from their separate tragedies jeopardizes their love.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers

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  7. Stomp the Yard (2007)

    After the death of his younger brother, a troubled 19-year-old street dancer from Los Angeles is able to bypass juvenile hall by enrolling in the historically black, Truth University in Atlanta, Georgia. But his efforts to get an education and woo the girl he likes are sidelined when he is courted by the top two campus fraternities, both of which want and need his fierce street-style dance moves to win the highly coveted national step show competition.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers

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  8. Ghostlight (2024)

    When melancholic construction worker Dan finds himself drifting from his wife and daughter, he discovers community and purpose in a local theater's production of Romeo and Juliet. As the drama onstage starts to mirror his own life, he and his family are forced to confront a personal loss.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers

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  9. Goodbye June (2025)

    Four siblings' lives change drastically when their ailing mother takes a turn for the worse over the holiday season.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers

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  10. Wildflower (2023)

    The story of Bea Johnson from birth to graduation as she navigates life with an intellectually disabled parent and an extended family who can't quite agree on the best way to help.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers

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  11. Bravetown (2015)

    After an accidental drug overdose, a talented teenage DJ goes to live with his estranged father in a small Army town, where he gets to the bottom of his own pain and learns empathy for others.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers

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  12. Secrets & Lies (1996)

    After her adoptive mother dies, Hortense, a successful black optometrist, seeks out her birth mother. She's shocked when her research leads her to Cynthia, a working class white woman.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers

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  13. Hello I Must Be Going (2012)

    An affair with a 19-year old actor helps reinvigorate life for thirty-something Amy after she moves home to her parents’ house following her divorce.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers

  14. Laggies (2014)

    Overeducated and underemployed, 28 year old Megan is in the throes of a quarterlife crisis. Squarely into adulthood with no career prospects, no particular motivation to think about her future and no one to relate to, Megan is comfortable lagging a few steps behind - while her friends check off milestones and celebrate their new grown-up status. When her high-school sweetheart proposes, Megan panics and- given an unexpected opportunity to escape for a week - hides out in the home of her new friend, 16-year old Annika and Annika's world-weary single dad Craig.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers

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  15. The Glass Castle (2017)

    A young girl is raised in a dysfunctional family constantly on the run from the FBI. Living in poverty, she comes of age guided by her drunkard, ingenious father who distracts her with magical stories to keep her mind off the family's dire state, and her selfish, nonconformist mother who has no intention of raising a family, along with her younger brother and sister, and her other older sister. Together, they fend for each other as they mature in an unorthodox journey that is their family life.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers

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  16. The Boy in the Dress (2014)

    Dennis feels different - an ordinary boy in an ordinary house in an ordinary street, playing football with his mates and living with his dad and brother, but frustrated by the boring grey world he inhabits. Life has never really been the same since his mum left. However, transformation can happen in the most unexpected places. Aided by Lisa, the coolest girl in school, Dennis creates a whole new persona and puts it to the ultimate test - but can a boy wear a dress, and what will the headmaster, his dad and his friends on the football team think if they find out?

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers

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  17. Kiss and Cry (2017)

    A romantic drama based on the story of Carley Allison, a promising 18 year old figure skater and singer who made medical history in her fight against a rare 1 in 3.5 billion type of sarcoma.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers

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  18. After We Fell (2021)

    Just as Tessa's life begins to become unglued, nothing is what she thought it would be. Not her friends nor her family. The only person that she should be able to rely on is Hardin, who is furious when he discovers the massive secret that she's been keeping. Before Tessa makes the biggest decision of her life, everything changes because of revelations about her family.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers

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  19. The War Zone (1999)

    An alienated teenager, saddened that he has moved away from London, must find a way to deal with a dark family secret.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers

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  20. The Royal Tenenbaums (2001)

    Royal Tenenbaum and his wife Etheline had three children and then they separated. All three children are extraordinary --- all geniuses. Virtually all memory of the brilliance of the young Tenenbaums was subsequently erased by two decades of betrayal, failure, and disaster. Most of this was generally considered to be their father's fault. "The Royal Tenenbaums" is the story of the family's sudden, unexpected reunion one recent winter.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers

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Frequently asked questions

What are the best movies like The Way It Is?

The closest matches to The Way It Is are Divine Secrets of the Ya-Ya Sisterhood (2002), Boyhood (2014) and Here (2024). Below are 17 more, each with the reason it matches.

What should I watch after The Way It Is?

Start with Divine Secrets of the Ya-Ya Sisterhood (2002), the closest match to The Way It Is.

What is the highest-rated movie like The Way It Is?

Secrets & Lies (1996), rated 7.6/10 by 758 TMDB users.

What is the newest movie like The Way It Is?

Goodbye June (2025) is the most recent release on this list.

Are there English movies like The Way It Is?

Yes: Divine Secrets of the Ya-Ya Sisterhood (2002), Boyhood (2014) and Here (2024).

How are movies similar to The Way It Is chosen?

First come films that Trakt’s viewers watch alongside The Way It Is, then TMDB’s recommendations and films it rates as similar in story and genre. Each pick says which signal put it there.

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