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Movies like Pretend I'm Not Here (2000)

The best movies like Pretend I'm Not Here (2000) are Alone With Her (2006), All Day and a Night (2020) and One Hour Photo (2002). If Pretend I'm Not Here hooked you with its drama, these 30 similar films are what to watch next, and every pick says why it matches.

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  1. Alone With Her (2006)

    The harrowing story of a disturbed young man's attempts to win the affections of an unsuspecting young woman. When Doug first sees Amy, he instantly falls for her and begins to watch her every move, going so far as to set up spy cameras in her apartment. However, as his fascination grows into obsession he's no longer satisfied with just watching.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama

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  2. All Day and a Night (2020)

    While serving life in prison, a young man looks back at the people, the circumstances and the system that set him on the path toward his crime.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama

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  3. One Hour Photo (2002)

    Sy Parrish has lovingly developed photographs for the Yorkin family since their son was a baby. But as the Yorkins' lives become fuller, Sy's only seems lonelier, until he eventually convinces himself he's part of their family. When Sy's picture-perfect fantasy collides with an ugly dose of reality, a bizarre and thrilling confrontation ensues.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama

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  4. Careful What You Wish For (2015)

    A guy gets more than he bargained for after entering into an affair with the wife of an investment banker. Soon, a suspicious death and substantial life insurance policy embroil him in a scandal.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama

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  5. The Good Neighbor (2016)

    Two high school filmmakers decide to create the illusion of a haunting on an unsuspecting neighbor.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama

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  6. The Gift (2015)

    Simon and Robyn are a young married couple whose life is going as planned until a chance run-in with Simon's high school acquaintance sends their world into a tailspin.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama

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  7. Deep Water (2022)

    A well-to-do husband who allows his wife to have affairs in order to avoid a divorce becomes a prime suspect in the disappearance of her lovers.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama

  8. The Good Neighbor (2022)

    A nightmarish evening unfolds for neighbors David and Robert when they accidentally hit a woman on her bike and flee the scene. While David is increasingly plagued by feelings of guilt, Robert shows no remorse and becomes overbearing and possessive.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama

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  9. Goal II: Living the Dream (2007)

    Tempted away from Newcastle United to join Real Madrid, rising star Santiago Munez finds this latest change of fortune the greatest challenge yet - personally as well as professionally. He is reunited with Gavin Harris, though they must compete to be on the team, and estranged from fiancee Roz, whose nursing career keeps her back home.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama

  10. Shirley (2020)

    A famous horror writer finds inspiration for her next book after she and her husband take in a young couple.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama

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  11. American Beauty (1999)

    Lester Burnham, a depressed suburban father in a mid-life crisis, decides to turn his hectic life around after developing an infatuation with his daughter's attractive friend.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama

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  12. The Nun (2013)

    Suzanne Simonin describes her life of suffering in letters. As a young woman she is sent to a convent against her will. Since her parents cannot afford the dowry required for a marriage befitting her rank they decide she must instead become a nun. Although a kind and understanding Mother Superior helps her to learn the convent’s daily routine, Suzanne’s desire for freedom remains unabated. When the Mother Superior dies, Suzanne finds herself faced with reprisals, humiliation and harassment at the hands of the new Abbess and the other Sisters. For many years, Suzanne is subjected to bigotry and religious fanaticism. (Berlinale.de)

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama

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  13. The Son (2002)

    A joinery instructor at a rehab center refuses to take a new teen as his apprentice, but then begins to follow the boy through the hallways and streets.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama

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  14. The Visit (1964)

    Carla Zachanassian had a child by Serge Miller as a teenager. When Serge refused to marry her, she was driven out of town. By her own wit and cunning, she has returned as a multi-millionaire for a visit. The town lays out the red carpet expecting big things from Carla, only to learn that her sole purpose is to see Serge Miller killed...

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama

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  15. Last Summer (2023)

    One summer, a French teenager who has been living with his mother in the city moves in with his estranged father’s family in the countryside, where he clashes with his stepmother.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama

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  16. The Conversation (1974)

    A paranoid, secretive surveillance expert has a crisis of conscience when he suspects that the couple he is spying on will be murdered.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama

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  17. Following (1999)

    Bill, an idle, unemployed aspiring writer, walks the crowded streets of London following randomly chosen strangers, a seemingly innocent entertainment that becomes dangerous when he crosses paths with a mysterious character.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama

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  18. Eleanor the Great (2025)

    94-year-old Eleanor Morgenstein tries to rebuild her life after the death of her best friend. As a result, she moves back to New York City after living in Florida for decades.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama

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  19. The Young One (1960)

    A jazz musician seeks refuge from a lynch mob on a remote island, where he meets a hostile game warden and the young object of his attentions.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama

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  20. Inside I'm Dancing (2004)

    Michael is a 24-year-old who has cerebral palsy and long-term resident of the Carrigmore Residential Home for the Disabled, run by the formidable Eileen. His life is transformed when the maverick Rory O'Shea moves in.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama

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  21. American Graffiti (1973)

    A couple of high school graduates spend one final night cruising the strip with their buddies before they go off to college.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both drama

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  22. Aparajito (1956)

    Apu and his family have moved away from the country to live in the bustling holy city of Benares. As he progresses from wide-eyed child to intellectually curious teenager, eventually studying in Kolkata, we witness his academic and moral education, as well as the growing complexity of his relationship with his mother.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both drama

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  23. Notes on a Scandal (2006)

    A veteran high school teacher befriends a younger art teacher, who is having an affair with one of her 15-year-old students. However, her intentions with this new "friend" also go well beyond platonic friendship.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both drama

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  24. Gloomy Sunday (1999)

    Budapest in the 1930s. Restaurant owner Laszlo hires pianist András to play in his restaurant. Both men fall in love with the beautiful waitress Ilona who inspires András to his only composition. His song of Gloomy Sunday is, at first, loved and then feared, for its melancholic melody sets off a chain of suicides. The fragile balance of the erotic ménage à trois is sent off kilter when the German Hans falls in love with Ilona as well.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both drama

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  25. The Dreamers (2003)

    When Isabelle and Theo invite Matthew to stay with them, what begins as a casual friendship ripens into a sensual voyage of discovery and desire in which nothing is off limits and everything is possible.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both drama

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  26. The Discovery of Heaven (2001)

    Disappointed with humanity, God wants to revoke his contract with humanity and wants to take back the stone tablets containing the ten commandments. To this end an angel is sent out to affect the personal lives of three humans so an appropriate child may be conceived.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both drama

  27. Secret Desires of a Housewife (2004)

    Cindy, a newlywed who's determined to do her part to contribute to the household income, together with her ultra-hot friend Heather, set up a web cam site in Heather's front room. As Heather tests the site, Cindy watches the hot action from her house. When Cindy's husband returns, things really get steamy.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both drama

  28. Anche il riccio respira (TBA)

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both drama

  29. Big (1988)

    When a young boy makes a wish at a carnival machine to be big, he wakes up the following morning to find that it has been granted and his body has grown older overnight, but he is still the same 13-year-old boy inside. Now he must learn how to cope with the unfamiliar world of grown-ups, including getting a job and having his first romantic encounter with a woman.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both drama

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  30. Bad Timing (1982)

    Nancy Savoca’s second student film follows two twelve-year olds, Bobby (Joey D’Arelli) and Denise (Kelly Cinnante) who run away to Hollywood. They land at an open mic night in a New Jersey bar where Bobby’s aunt and uncle (once aspiring actors) lay out the realities of life as a working actor. The film was inspired by performers Savoca met while making her first student film, most notably William DaPrato. Filled with wry humor and quiet revelations about the pursuit of artistic dreams, Bad Timing also features Marianne Leone and the on-screen debut of future Academy Award winner Chris Cooper.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both drama

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Frequently asked questions

What are the best movies like Pretend I'm Not Here?

The closest matches to Pretend I'm Not Here are Alone With Her (2006), All Day and a Night (2020) and One Hour Photo (2002). Below are 27 more, each with the reason it matches.

What should I watch after Pretend I'm Not Here?

Start with Alone With Her (2006), the closest match to Pretend I'm Not Here.

What is the highest-rated movie like Pretend I'm Not Here?

American Beauty (1999), rated 8.0/10 by 13,545 TMDB users.

What is the newest movie like Pretend I'm Not Here?

Eleanor the Great (2025) is the most recent release on this list.

Are there French movies like Pretend I'm Not Here?

Yes: The Nun (2013), The Son (2002) and Last Summer (2023).

How are movies similar to Pretend I'm Not Here chosen?

First come films that Trakt’s viewers watch alongside Pretend I'm Not Here, then TMDB’s recommendations and films it rates as similar in story and genre. Each pick says which signal put it there.

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