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Movies like It's Not a Date (2014)

The best movies like It's Not a Date (2014) are The Little Death (2014), About Last Night... (1986) and Shortbus (2006). If It's Not a Date hooked you with its romance and comedy, these 30 similar films are what to watch next, and every pick says why it matches.

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  1. The Little Death (2014)

    A comedy film that looks into the loosely connected lives of people with strange sexual fantasies.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama & comedy

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  2. About Last Night... (1986)

    A man and woman meet and try to have a romantic affair, despite their personal problems and the interference of their disapproving friends.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both comedy & drama

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  3. Shortbus (2006)

    In post-9/11 New York City, an eclectic group of citizens find their lives entangled, personally, romantically, and sexually, at Shortbus, an underground Brooklyn salon infamous for its blend of art, music, politics, and carnality.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both romance & comedy

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  4. Good Dick (2008)

    A fidgety, wisecracking video store clerk develops a fixation on a particularly reclusive customer, a frequent visitor to the pornography section of Cinefile, the video store where he works in Los Angeles. After multiple failures to impress her during their brief daily transactions, he finds her street address in the store's database, drives to her apartment building and initiates an unconventional campaign to win her affections.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both comedy & drama

  5. Carnal Knowledge (1971)

    Two lifelong friends navigate complex sexual encounters and emotional entanglements, wrestling with societal norms and personal desires.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama & romance

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  6. The Rules of Attraction (2002)

    The incredibly spoiled and overprivileged students of Camden College are a backdrop for an unusual love triangle between a drug dealer, a virgin and a bisexual classmate.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama & romance

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  7. Cherry (2010)

    Ivy League Freshman, Aaron Milton (17) gets a different kind of education when he falls for Linda (34) a vivacious former wild-child who has returned to college to straighten out her life. The curriculum gets more challenging when Aaron meets Linda's sarcastic 14 year-old daughter, Beth - who quickly develops a crush on him. The math doesn't work in either direction but the dysfunctional triangle becomes a learning experience for all involved.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both comedy & drama

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  8. Just Before I Go (2015)

    Ted Morgan has been treading water for most of his life. After his wife leaves him, Ted realizes he has nothing left to live for. Summoning the courage for one last act, Ted decides to go home and face the people he feels are responsible for creating the shell of a person he has become. But life is tricky. The more determined Ted is to confront his demons, to get closure, and to withdraw from his family, the more Ted is yanked into the chaos of their lives. So, when Ted Morgan decides to kill himself, he finds a reason to live.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both comedy & drama

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  9. Georgy Girl (1966)

    A homely but vivacious young woman dodges the amorous attentions of her father's middle-aged employer while attempting to please her glamorously stuck-up roommate Meredith.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both comedy & drama

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  10. Newness (2017)

    In contemporary Los Angeles, two millennials navigating a social media–driven hookup culture begin a relationship that pushes both emotional and physical boundaries.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both romance & drama

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  11. Fifty Shades Freed (2018)

    Believing they have left behind shadowy figures from their past, newlyweds Christian and Ana fully embrace an inextricable connection and shared life of luxury. But just as she steps into her role as Mrs. Grey and he relaxes into an unfamiliar stability, new threats could jeopardize their happy ending before it even begins.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama & romance

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  12. Petulia (1968)

    Dr. Archie Bollen is having a midlife crisis. He's just divorced his wife and is establishing a new life for himself. One night, he catches the eye of Petulia Danner, a charming, free-spirited young woman. Petulia's vibrant personality hides her fear of her abusive husband, David, whose father is a powerful society figure. As Petulia and Archie's feelings for each other grow, they must decide what it is they truly want.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama & romance

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  13. Monday (2021)

    A spark on a Friday can lead to a sizzling weekend fling, but what happens when you get to the inevitable Monday?

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama & romance

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  14. Fifty Shades Darker (2017)

    When a wounded Christian Grey tries to entice a cautious Ana Steele back into his life, she demands a new arrangement before she will give him another chance. As the two begin to build trust and find stability, shadowy figures from Christian’s past start to circle the couple, determined to destroy their hopes for a future together.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama & romance

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  15. Time Is Up (2021)

    Vivien, an accomplished student with a passion for physics, and Roy, a troubled young man, are involved in an accident that forces them to reclaim their lives one minute at the time.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both romance & drama

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  16. Asylum (2005)

    A woman becomes very curious about one of her psychiatrist husband's inmates, a man who was found guilty in the murder and disfigurement of his former wife.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama & romance

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  17. London (2005)

    London is a drug laden adventure that centers on a party in a New York loft where a young man is trying to win back his ex-girlfriend.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama & romance

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  18. The Duke of Burgundy (2015)

    Day in and day out, lovers Cynthia and Evelyn enact an elaborate sadomasochistic fantasy as mistress and maid. But as their ritual of domination and submission begins to turn stale, Cynthia yearns for something more conventional, while Evelyn tries to push their taboos even further.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama & romance

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  19. Family Weekend (2013)

    A 16-year-old girl takes her parents hostage after they miss her big jump-roping competition.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both comedy & drama

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  20. The Clique (2008)

    A young girl tries to fit in with a clique of popular middle school girls after moving into the guest house of one of their homes.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both comedy & drama

  21. Suzhou River (2000)

    After getting out of prison, small-time crook Mardar stumbles upon a woman who looks exactly like his long-lost lover, who he attempted to kidnap 3 years ago.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both drama & romance

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  22. Play It Again, Sam (1972)

    A neurotic film critic obsessed with the movie Casablanca attempts to get over his wife leaving him by dating again with the help of a married couple and his illusory idol, Humphrey Bogart.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both comedy & romance

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  23. Ketugadu (2015)

    Chandu, a conman falls in love with Akira, sister of an elite businessman, Prakash. Eventually, as Prakash instructs Chandu to kidnap Akira, Ajay, an industrialist also aims to abduct her.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both comedy & romance

  24. The Wheels on the Bus (2017)

    A bus breaks down in the North Korean countryside. The two drivers must put their differences aside and overcome a series of setbacks to get their bus back up and running and cargo delivered on time.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both comedy & drama

  25. The Soldier's Star (2006)

    A Russian guitarist was enlisted in 1984 in the Afghan war. Imprisoned, he will meet an Afghan musician and a French journalist.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both drama

  26. Problem Child (1990)

    Ben Healy and his social climbing wife Flo adopt fun-loving seven year old Junior. But they soon discover he's a little monster as he turns a camping trip, a birthday party and even a baseball game into comic nightmares.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both comedy

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  27. Save the Green Planet! (2003)

    A young man believes that his country's leaders are actually toxic reptilian aliens sent down to launch a takeover of his beloved Earth. So he decides to abduct them and force the truth out on camera in his basement that doubles as a film studio and torture chamber.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both comedy

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  28. Piggy (2022)

    A bullied overweight teenager sees a glimpse of hope when her tormentors are brutally abducted by a mesmerizing stranger.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both drama

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  29. The Young Master (1980)

    Youthful martial arts master Lung is searching for his missing brother, when he is mistaken for a criminal on the run. He must prove his innocence by solving the case himself, while local lawmen and merciless mercenaries are hot on his trail.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both comedy

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  30. Lesbionage (1988)

    In this romantic thriller, blackmail, kidnapping, and fraud combine to give two lesbian private detectives (and lovers) their toughest case. Will their relationship survive? Produced by women for women.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both comedy

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Frequently asked questions

What are the best movies like It's Not a Date?

The closest matches to It's Not a Date are The Little Death (2014), About Last Night... (1986) and Shortbus (2006). Below are 27 more, each with the reason it matches.

What should I watch after It's Not a Date?

Start with The Little Death (2014), the closest match to It's Not a Date.

What is the highest-rated movie like It's Not a Date?

Play It Again, Sam (1972), rated 7.5/10 by 670 TMDB users.

What is the newest movie like It's Not a Date?

Piggy (2022) is the most recent release on this list.

Are there English movies like It's Not a Date?

Yes: The Little Death (2014), About Last Night... (1986) and Shortbus (2006).

How are movies similar to It's Not a Date chosen?

First come films that Trakt’s viewers watch alongside It's Not a Date, then TMDB’s recommendations and films it rates as similar in story and genre. Each pick says which signal put it there.

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