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Movies like Is He There? (2009)

The best movies like Is He There? (2009) are Flesh + Blood (1985), Xiu Xiu: The Sent-Down Girl (1998) and Nymphomaniac: Vol. II (2013). If Is He There? hooked you with its drama, these 30 similar films are what to watch next, and every pick says why it matches.

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  1. Flesh + Blood (1985)

    A band of medieval mercenaries take revenge on a noble Lord who cheated them by kidnapping his son's fiancée. As the plague and warfare cut a swathe of destruction throughout the land, the mercenaries hole up in a castle and await their fate.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama

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  2. Xiu Xiu: The Sent-Down Girl (1998)

    Young teen girl Xiu Xiu is sent away to a remote corner of the Sichuan steppes for manual labor in 1975 (sending young people to there was a part of Cultural Revolution in China). A year later, she agrees to go to even more remote spot with a Tibetan saddle tramp Lao Jin to learn horse herding.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama

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  3. Nymphomaniac: Vol. II (2013)

    The continuation of Joe's sexually dictated life delves into the darker aspects of her adult life and what led to her being in Seligman's care.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama

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  4. Crash (1996)

    A car crash victim inexplicably finds himself aroused by car accidents and becomes involved with an underground subculture of like-minded souls.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama

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  5. Auto Focus (2002)

    A successful TV star during the 1960s, former "Hogan's Heroes" actor Bob Crane projects a wholesome family-man image, but this front masks his persona as a sex addict who records and photographs his many encounters with women, often with the help of his seedy friend, John Henry Carpenter. This biographical drama reveals how Crane's double life takes its toll on him and his family, and ultimately contributes to his death.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama

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  6. Mammal (2016)

    After Margaret, a divorcée living in Dublin, loses her teenage son, she develops an unorthodox relationship with Joe, a homeless youth. Their tentative trust is threatened by his involvement with a violent gang and the escalation of her ex-husband's grieving rage.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama

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  7. Shame (2011)

    Brandon, a thirty-something man living in New York, eludes intimacy with women but feeds his deepest desires with a compulsive addiction to sex. When his younger sister temporarily moves into his apartment, stirring up bitter memories of their shared painful past, Brandon's life, like his fragile mind, gets out of control.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama

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  8. Brimstone (2016)

    In the menacing inferno of the old North-American West, Liz is a genuine survivor who is hunted by a vengeful preacher for a crime she didn’t commit.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama

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  9. The Cook, the Thief, His Wife & Her Lover (1989)

    When churlish mobster Albert Spica acquires an upscale French restaurant in London, he dines there nightly, effectively scaring off the clientele with his bad manners. His wife, Georgina, is especially disgusted by him, and soon begins an affair with regular guest Michael. Despite their best efforts to keep it secret, Spica learns about their trysts, and he plots a terrible revenge.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama

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  10. I Walk the Line (1970)

    Henry Tawes, a middle-aged sheriff in a rural Tennessee town, is usually the first man to criticize others for their bad behavior. Miserable in his marriage, Henry falls in love with teenage seductress Alma, who is the daughter of local criminal and moonshiner Carl McCain. Henry's moral character comes further into question when he is tempted to conceal Carl's crimes in order to prolong his relationship with Alma.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama

  11. Nymphomaniac: Vol. I (2013)

    A man named Seligman finds a fainted wounded woman in an alley and he brings her home. She tells him that her name is Joe and that she is nymphomaniac. Joe tells her life and sexual experiences with hundreds of men since she was a young teenager while Seligman tells about his hobbies, such as fly fishing, reading about Fibonacci numbers or listening to organ music.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama

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  12. Pimp (2018)

    An urban love story set on the hard streets of the Bronx. A struggling female pimp, named Wednesday, grows up learning the game from her dad. Once he's gone she's left to look out for her prostitute mother and girlfriend Nikki.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama

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  13. Escape from Sobibor (1987)

    The true story of WWII's notorious Sobibor Nazi death camp, where a courageous inmate orchestrates and leads the escape of over 300 prisoners.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama

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  14. Blonde (2022)

    From her volatile childhood as Norma Jeane, through her rise to stardom and romantic entanglements, this reimagined fictional portrait of Hollywood legend Marilyn Monroe blurs the lines of fact and fiction to explore the widening split between her public and private selves.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama

  15. Luckiest Girl Alive (2022)

    A successful woman in New York City finds her life upended when she is forced to confront a dark truth that threatens to unravel her meticulously crafted life.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama

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  16. Crimes of Passion (1984)

    Fashion designer Joanna Crane leads a double life. By night she is China Blue, a prostitute who's attracted the attention of a sexually frustrated private detective, and a psychopathic priest in possession of a murderous sex toy.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama

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  17. Ken Park (2003)

    Teen skater Ken Park (nicknamed Krap Nek; his name spelled and pronounced backward) kills himself at a Visalia skate park; his death bookends the lives of four other young people who knew him: Shawn, the most conventional; Tate brims with psychotic rage; Claude is habitually harassed by his brutish father and coddled, rather uncomfortably, by his enormously pregnant mother; and Peaches looks after her devoutly religious father, but yearns for freedom. They're all rather tight, or so they claim.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama

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  18. Boyka: Undisputed IV (2016)

    In the fourth installment of the fighting franchise, Boyka is shooting for the big leagues when an accidental death in the ring makes him question everything he stands for. When he finds out the wife of the man he accidentally killed is in trouble, Boyka offers to fight in a series of impossible battles to free her from a life of servitude.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama

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  19. The Brothers Karamazov (1958)

    Ryevsk, Russia, 1870. Tensions abound in the Karamazov family. Fyodor is a wealthy libertine who holds his purse strings tightly. His four grown sons include Dmitri, the eldest, an elegant officer, always broke and at odds with his father, betrothed to Katya, herself lovely and rich. The other brothers include a sterile aesthete, a factotum who is a bastard, and a monk. Family tensions erupt when Dmitri falls in love with one of his father's mistresses, the coquette Grushenka. Two brothers see Dmitri's jealousy of their father as an opportunity to inherit sooner. Acts of violence lead to the story's conclusion: trials of honor, conscience, forgiveness, and redemption.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama

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  20. Suburbia (1984)

    When household tensions and a sense of worthlessness overcome Evan, he finds escape when he clings with the orphans of a throw-away society. The runaways hold on to each other like a family until a tragedy tears them apart.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama

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  21. The Nightcomers (1972)

    Prequel to the Henry James classic "Turn of the Screw" about the events leading up to the deaths of Peter Quint and Ms. Jessel, and the slow corruption of the children in their care.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both drama

  22. Leaving (2009)

    A bourgeois housewife, planning to go back to work as a physiotherapist after having devoted 20 years to her husband and two children, has her comfortable, elegant life turned upside down when she falls for a Spanish builder and begins a runaway affair.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both drama

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  23. The Insect Woman (1963)

    A woman, Tome, is born to a lower class family in Japan in 1918. The title refers to an insect, repeating its mistakes, as in an infinite circle. Imamura, with this metaphor, introduces the life of Tome, who keeps trying to change her poor life.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both drama

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  24. The Strange Woman (1946)

    In early 19th century New England, an unscrupulous woman uses her beauty and wits to seduce, deceive and control the men around her.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both drama

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  25. Poison Ivy 2: Lily (1996)

    A young and naive college art student becomes obsessed with assuming the identity and personality of a departed coed who used to live in her room, and in so doing causes complications that result in two men, a student and her art professor, lusting after her.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both drama

  26. Another 9 1/2 Weeks (1997)

    Despondent at losing his lover, a man wanders the streets of Paris and has an affair with her kinky friend.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both drama

  27. Hard Candy (2006)

    Hayley’s a smart, charming teenage girl. Jeff’s a handsome, smooth fashion photographer. An Internet chat, a coffee shop meet-up, an impromptu fashion shoot back at Jeff’s place. Jeff thinks it’s his lucky night. He’s in for a surprise.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both drama

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  28. When Love Is Lust (1973)

    A decadent countess, middle-aged but still attractive, forces her young and timid daughter to marry a rich butcher. But the couple’s sexual relation is troubled, because the girl has her fair share of inhibitions. So she abandons her house and seeks refuge at her sister’s place. During her absence, her husband finds consolation in his mother in law’s arms.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both drama

  29. Antichrist (2009)

    A grieving couple retreats to their cabin 'Eden' in the woods, hoping to repair their broken hearts and troubled marriage. But nature takes its course and things go from bad to worse.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both drama

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  30. Romance (1971)

    Love story between a young man and a married woman. She's married to a businessman who's neglecting her. She would like to leave him but she's afraid of the age difference between her and her lover.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both drama

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Frequently asked questions

What are the best movies like Is He There??

The closest matches to Is He There? are Flesh + Blood (1985), Xiu Xiu: The Sent-Down Girl (1998) and Nymphomaniac: Vol. II (2013). Below are 27 more, each with the reason it matches.

What should I watch after Is He There??

Start with Flesh + Blood (1985), the closest match to Is He There?.

What is the highest-rated movie like Is He There??

The Cook, the Thief, His Wife & Her Lover (1989), rated 7.3/10 by 754 TMDB users.

What is the newest movie like Is He There??

Luckiest Girl Alive (2022) is the most recent release on this list.

Are there English movies like Is He There??

Yes: Flesh + Blood (1985), Xiu Xiu: The Sent-Down Girl (1998) and Nymphomaniac: Vol. II (2013).

How are movies similar to Is He There? chosen?

First come films that Trakt’s viewers watch alongside Is He There?, then TMDB’s recommendations and films it rates as similar in story and genre. Each pick says which signal put it there.

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