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Movies like In Your Absence (2008)

The best movies like In Your Absence (2008) are Tex (1982), Palmer (2021) and Memories of a Teenager (2019). If In Your Absence hooked you with its drama, these 30 similar films are what to watch next, and every pick says why it matches.

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  1. Tex (1982)

    After their mother dies and their father leaves them, teenage brothers Tex and Mason McCormick struggle to make it on their own.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama

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  2. Palmer (2021)

    After 12 years in prison, former high school football star Eddie Palmer returns home to put his life back together—and forms an unlikely bond with Sam, an outcast boy from a troubled home. But Eddie's past threatens to ruin his new life and family.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama

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  3. Memories of a Teenager (2019)

    After the suicide of his best friend and the fire of a local dance called Cromañón, including recitals, illegal parties in an abandoned warehouse and high school, a year passes by in the life of Zabo who writes everything he feels and lives in his blog, "Memories of a teenager".

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama

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  4. Boy Erased (2018)

    Jared, the son of a Baptist pastor in a small American town, is outed to his parents at age 19. Jared is faced with an ultimatum: attend a gay conversion therapy program – or be permanently exiled and shunned by his family, friends, and faith.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama

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  5. To the Stars (2019)

    Under small-town scrutiny, a withdrawn farmer’s daughter forges an intimate friendship with a worldly but reckless new girl in 1960s Oklahoma.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama

  6. Giant Little Ones (2019)

    Two popular teen boys, best friends since childhood, discover their lives, families, and girlfriends dramatically upended after an unexpected incident occurs on the night of a 17th birthday party.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama

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  7. Out in the Open (2019)

    A boy escaped from home, listening, crouched in the depths of his hiding place, the cries of the men who seek him. When the game passes, what remains before him is an infinite and arid plain that he must cross if he wants to get away definitively from what has made him flee. His steps will intersect with those of a pastor and, from that moment, nothing will be the same for either of them.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama

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  8. King Jack (2015)

    Growing up in a rural town filled with violent delinquents, Jack has learned to do what it takes to survive, despite having an oblivious mother and no father. After his aunt falls ill and a younger cousin comes to stay with him, the hardened 15-year-old discovers the importance of friendship, family, and looking for happiness even in the most desolate of circumstances.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama

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  9. Palo Alto (2014)

    A lack of parental guidance encourages teens in an affluent California town to rebel with substance abuse and casual sex.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama

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  10. Pariah (2011)

    A Brooklyn teenager juggles conflicting identities and risks friendship, heartbreak, and family in a desperate search for sexual expression.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama

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  11. Ken Park (2003)

    Teen skater Ken Park (nicknamed Krap Nek; his name spelled and pronounced backward) kills himself at a Visalia skate park; his death bookends the lives of four other young people who knew him: Shawn, the most conventional; Tate brims with psychotic rage; Claude is habitually harassed by his brutish father and coddled, rather uncomfortably, by his enormously pregnant mother; and Peaches looks after her devoutly religious father, but yearns for freedom. They're all rather tight, or so they claim.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama

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  12. Mammal (2016)

    After Margaret, a divorcée living in Dublin, loses her teenage son, she develops an unorthodox relationship with Joe, a homeless youth. Their tentative trust is threatened by his involvement with a violent gang and the escalation of her ex-husband's grieving rage.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama

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  13. The Miseducation of Cameron Post (2018)

    Pennsylvania, 1993. After getting caught with another girl, teenager Cameron Post is sent to a conversion therapy center run by the strict Dr. Lydia Marsh and her brother, Reverend Rick, whose treatment consists in repenting for feeling “same sex attraction.” Cameron befriends fellow sinners Jane and Adam, thus creating a new family to deal with the surrounding intolerance.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama

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  14. Closet Monster (2016)

    A creative and driven teenager is desperate to escape his hometown and the haunting memories of his turbulent childhood.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama

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  15. The Perks of Being a Wallflower (2012)

    Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, 1991. High school freshman Charlie is a wallflower, always watching life from the sidelines, until two senior students, Sam and her stepbrother Patrick, become his mentors, helping him discover the joys of friendship, music and love.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama

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  16. The Kings of the World (2022)

    Rá, Culebro, Sere, Winny and Nano. Five boys who live on the streets of Medellín. Five kings with no kingdom, no law, no family, set out on a journey in search of the promised land. A subversive tale told through a wild and endearing clan, somewhere between reality and delirium. A journey to nowhere, where everything happens.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama

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  17. Homeless to Harvard: The Liz Murray Story (2003)

    Based on a true story. Liz Murray is a young girl who is taken care of by her loving, but drug-addicted parents. Liz becomes homeless at 15 and after a tragedy comes upon her, she begins her work to finish high school.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama

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  18. Inside I'm Dancing (2004)

    Michael is a 24-year-old who has cerebral palsy and long-term resident of the Carrigmore Residential Home for the Disabled, run by the formidable Eileen. His life is transformed when the maverick Rory O'Shea moves in.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama

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  19. Chicuarotes (2019)

    Cagalera and Moloteco are two teenagers from San Gregorio Atlapulco who are desperate to get out and move up and away from oppressive circumstances. When they hear of an opportunity to buy a spot in the electrician’s union, which could transform their lives, they quickly devolve into the criminal, adult underworld of Mexico City in a bid to buy their freedom.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama

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  20. This Is Not Berlin (2019)

    Seventeen-year-old Carlos doesn't fit in anywhere, not in his family nor with the friends he has chosen in school. But everything changes when he is invited to a mythical nightclub where he discovers the underground LGBTQ nightlife scene: punk, sexual liberty and drugs.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama

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  21. Mystic Pizza (1988)

    Three teenage girls come of age while working at a pizza parlor in Mystic, Connecticut.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both drama

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  22. The Unsure Masseur (2021)

    Trapped in our gig jobs economy, an aspiring masseur learns the sacrifices required from an experienced massage therapist.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both drama

  23. Eden (2021)

    Eden is the queer re-tale of Adam and Eve’s story in modern times. A visually striking story about first love situated in Berlin.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both drama

  24. Juste Xavier (2025)

    Xavier, a trans lawyer, reunites with his family at Christmas for the first time since his transition. Between his father’s enthusiasm, a budding flirtation with Ariane, and his tense relationship with his mother and sisters, this not-so-traditional holiday dinner becomes a colorful occasion for reconnecting.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both drama

  25. Barely in Love (2013)

    When a new troupe leader joins the 'Bnai Akiva' boy scouts movement, Yotam's world trembles. He is forced to cope with his sexual orientation and the difficulties he faces with family and religion, and is torn between his love of religion that forbids homosexuality and his mother who tries to 'cure' him.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both drama

  26. My Beautiful Laundrette (1985)

    A young Pakistani Briton manages a rundown laundrette with his lover while dealing with tension in his family, the local Pakistani community, and a persistent mob of skinheads.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both drama

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  27. Three Times About It (2012)

    We see what is happening through the eyes of a protagonist. A young athlete Yaroslav is not happy in his life: boredom and routine of daily workouts, need of constant self-control, etc. But most of all he is concerned about a strange feeling he has for men. Only his close friend Andrew seems to understand what is happening to him. For Yaroslav it's difficult to admit that he is a gay. Internal problems become external: he fights with a member of the national team and is on the verge of scandalous charges. He is referred to a psychologist who gently opens his eyes to himself.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both drama

  28. The Angry Toy (1984)

    Silvio, a young poet and inventor, struggles to find employment and to give meaning to his life. Silvio has a homosexual relationship, which leaves him traumatized.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both drama

  29. G O'Clock (2016)

    Alex is a paramedic who saves lives on London's gay chemsex scene, but can he save himself from it?

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both drama

  30. Kiss of the Spider Woman (1985)

    The story of two radically different men thrown together in a Latin American prison cell. One is Valentin, a journalist being tortured for his political beliefs. The other is Molina, a gay window-dresser who fills their lonely nights by spinning romantic fantasies drawn from memories of old movies.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both drama

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Frequently asked questions

What are the best movies like In Your Absence?

The closest matches to In Your Absence are Tex (1982), Palmer (2021) and Memories of a Teenager (2019). Below are 27 more, each with the reason it matches.

What should I watch after In Your Absence?

Start with Tex (1982), the closest match to In Your Absence.

What is the highest-rated movie like In Your Absence?

Palmer (2021), rated 8.1/10 by 2,028 TMDB users.

What is the newest movie like In Your Absence?

Juste Xavier (2025) is the most recent release on this list.

Are there Spanish movies like In Your Absence?

Yes: Memories of a Teenager (2019), Out in the Open (2019) and The Kings of the World (2022).

How are movies similar to In Your Absence chosen?

First come films that Trakt’s viewers watch alongside In Your Absence, then TMDB’s recommendations and films it rates as similar in story and genre. Each pick says which signal put it there.

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