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Movies like Modern Persuasion (2020)

The best movies like Modern Persuasion (2020) are Sitting in Bars with Cake (2023), XX/XY (2002) and How to Please a Woman (2022). If Modern Persuasion hooked you with its romance and comedy, these 30 similar films are what to watch next, and every pick says why it matches.

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  1. Sitting in Bars with Cake (2023)

    Extrovert Corinne convinces Jane, a shy, talented baker, to commit to a year of bringing cakes to bars, to help her meet people and build confidence. But when Corinne receives a life-altering diagnosis, the pair faces a challenge unlike anything they've experienced before.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both romance & comedy

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  2. XX/XY (2002)

    Three friends begin a dangerous three-way relationship that spirals out of control, leading to dire consequences that haunt them ten years later.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama & comedy

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  3. How to Please a Woman (2022)

    When her all-male house-cleaning business gets out of control, a mature woman must embrace her own sexuality, if she is to make a new life for herself.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both romance & comedy

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  4. The Good House (2021)

    When wry New England realtor Hildy Good rekindles a romance with her old high-school flame, Frank Getchell, it ignites long-buried emotions and family secrets that propel Hildy toward a reckoning with the one person she's been avoiding for decades: herself. Based on the best-selling novel by Ann Leary.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both romance & drama

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  5. St. Elmo's Fire (1985)

    Reluctant to let go of college life, a close-knit team of seven friends--irresponsible saxophone player Billy, young Republican Alec, his girlfriend Leslie, struggling journalist Kevin, drama queen Jules, lovesick waiter Kirby, and Wendy, a social worker with a heart of gold--realise the party is over. And as the burdens of maturity close in on the young dreamers, the complexities of adulthood and the daily struggle of growing up put their sacred friendship to the test. But everyone knows life is not a bed of roses. It won't be easy, but when all is said and done, what will it take for St. Elmo's clique to find its place in the real world?

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama & romance

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  6. Dirty Sexy Saint (2019)

    Clay Kincaid hates the nickname 'Saint', he got for being too kind to stray animals and desperate people. Especially when it comes to women. With a rough and damaged past that has left him jaded, he doesn't do committed relationships. This is before he meets Samantha Jamieson, an heiress turned runaway in need of help. When she starts to work as a waitress at his bar, he discovers that she is someone truly special and amazing… someone that could warm his damaged heart.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both romance & drama

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  7. Love & Sex (2000)

    When her rather explicit copy is rejected, magazine journalist Kate is asked by her editor to come up with an article on loving relationships instead, and to do so by the end of the day. This gets Kate thinking back over her own various experiences, and to wondering if she is in much of a position to write on the subject.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both comedy & drama

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  8. The Big Picture (1989)

    Hollywood beckons for recent film school grad Nick Chapman, who is out to capitalize on the momentum from his national award-winning student film. Studio executive Allen Habel seduces Nick with a dream deal to make his first feature, but once production gets rolling, corporate reality begins to intervene: Nick is unable to control a series of compromises to his high-minded vision, and it's all he can do to maintain his integrity in the midst of filmmaking chaos.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both comedy & romance

  9. Walking and Talking (1996)

    Just as Amelia thinks she's over her anxiety and insecurity, her best friend announces her engagement, bringing her anxiety and insecurity right back.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both comedy & drama

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  10. Why Did I Get Married Again? (2026)

    The couples reunite for the destination wedding of Marcus and Angela's daughter, bringing drama old and new as they ask, "Why did we get married again?"

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both comedy & romance

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  11. Hello, My Name Is Doris (2015)

    A self-help seminar inspires a sixty-something woman to romantically pursue her younger co-worker.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both comedy & drama

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  12. Strictly Sexual (2008)

    Two successful women, sick and tired of dating and relationships, decide to keep two young men in their pool house for strictly sexual purposes.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama & comedy

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  13. The Incredible Jessica James (2017)

    Burned by a bad breakup, a struggling New York City playwright makes an unlikely connection with a divorced app designer she meets on a blind date.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both romance & comedy

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  14. Someone Great (2019)

    An aspiring music journalist lands her dream job and is about to move to San Francisco when her boyfriend of nine years decides to call it quits. To nurse her broken heart, she and her two best friends spend one outrageous last adventure in New York City.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both comedy & romance

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  15. Heights (2005)

    Spanning twenty-four hours, HEIGHTS follows five New Yorkers challenged to choose their destiny before the sun comes up the next day.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama & romance

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  16. My Sassy Girl (2008)

    A guy has his life planned out until he is wooed, groomed and then dumped by an elusive woman.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both comedy & romance

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  17. Players (2024)

    New York sportswriter Mack has spent years devising successful hook-up "plays" with her friends, but when she unexpectedly falls for one of her targets, she must learn what it takes to go from simply scoring to playing for keeps.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both romance & comedy

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  18. ¿Quieres ser mi hijo? (2023)

    Lu, a conformist woman in her forties, learns that her 15-year partner has been having extramarital affairs. Starting from scratch, she gets involved in an unexpected relationship with a young womanizer.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both comedy & romance

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  19. How to Be Single (2016)

    New York City is full of lonely hearts seeking the right match, and what Alice, Robin, Lucy, Meg, Tom and David all have in common is the need to learn how to be single in a world filled with ever-evolving definitions of love.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both comedy & romance

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  20. London (2005)

    London is a drug laden adventure that centers on a party in a New York loft where a young man is trying to win back his ex-girlfriend.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama & romance

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  21. Back for Good (2017)

    An actress confronts her quarter-life crisis by breaking up with New York City and returning home to win back the love of her life.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both drama & comedy

  22. Working Girl (1988)

    When a secretary's idea is stolen by her boss, she takes a risky chance to reclaim it by impersonating him and running the project from his position.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both comedy & romance

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  23. Frankie and Johnny (1991)

    When Johnny is released from prison following a forgery charge, he quickly lands a job as a short-order cook at a New York diner. Following a brief fling with waitress Cora, he develops an attraction for Cora's friend and fellow waitress Frankie. While Frankie resists Johnny's charms initially, she eventually relents when her best friend, Tim, persuades her to give Johnny a chance.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both drama & romance

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  24. Completely Normal (2015)

    Awkward romantic Greg falls in love from afar when he crosses paths with the beautiful but reclusive Gwen on the New York subway, little does he know she is suffering from multiple personality disorder. Touching hilarity ensues.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both romance & comedy

  25. I Now Pronounce You Chuck & Larry (2007)

    Firefighters Chuck Ford and Larry Valentine are guy's guys, loyal to the core—which is why when widower Larry asks Chuck to pose as his lover so that he can get domestic partner benefits for his kids, his buddy agrees. However, things get dicey when a bureaucrat comes calling, and the boys are forced to present a picture of domestic bliss.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both comedy & romance

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  26. 54 (1998)

    When the mastermind behind New York's infamous Studio 54 disco plucks young Shane from the sea of faces clamoring to get inside his club, he not only gets his foot in the door, but lands a coveted job behind the bar — and a front-row ticket to the most legendary party on the planet!

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both drama & romance

  27. Honey (2003)

    Honey Daniels dreams of making a name for herself as a hip-hop choreographer. When she's not busy hitting downtown clubs with her friends, she teaches dance classes at a nearby community center in Harlem, N.Y., as a way to keep kids off the streets. Honey thinks she's hit the jackpot when she meets a hotshot director casts her in one of his music videos. But, when he starts demanding sexual favors from her, Honey makes a decision that will change her life.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both drama & romance

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  28. Nine 1/2 Weeks (1986)

    An erotic story about a woman, the assistant of an art gallery, who gets involved in an impersonal affair with a man. She barely knows about his life, only about the sex games they play, so the relationship begins to get complicated.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both drama & romance

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  29. Mickey Blue Eyes (1999)

    An English auctioneer proposes to the daughter of a mafia kingpin, only to realize that certain "favors" would be asked of him.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both comedy & romance

  30. 13 Going on 30 (2004)

    After total humiliation at her thirteenth birthday party, Jenna Rink wants to just hide until she's thirty. Thanks to some magic wishing dust, Jenna's prayer has been answered. With a knockout body, a fabulous wardrobe, an athlete boyfriend, a dream job, and superstar friends, this can't be a better life. But soon Jenna realizes that adult life isn’t as easy as she hoped for.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both comedy & romance

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Frequently asked questions

What are the best movies like Modern Persuasion?

The closest matches to Modern Persuasion are Sitting in Bars with Cake (2023), XX/XY (2002) and How to Please a Woman (2022). Below are 27 more, each with the reason it matches.

What should I watch after Modern Persuasion?

Start with Sitting in Bars with Cake (2023), the closest match to Modern Persuasion.

What is the highest-rated movie like Modern Persuasion?

¿Quieres ser mi hijo? (2023), rated 8.4/10 by 378 TMDB users.

What is the newest movie like Modern Persuasion?

Why Did I Get Married Again? (2026) is the most recent release on this list.

Are there English movies like Modern Persuasion?

Yes: Sitting in Bars with Cake (2023), XX/XY (2002) and How to Please a Woman (2022).

How are movies similar to Modern Persuasion chosen?

First come films that Trakt’s viewers watch alongside Modern Persuasion, then TMDB’s recommendations and films it rates as similar in story and genre. Each pick says which signal put it there.

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