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Movies like Not Gonna Bother You (2019)

The best movies like Not Gonna Bother You (2019) are Fire with Fire (1986), Endless Love (2014) and The Truth About Jane (2000). If Not Gonna Bother You hooked you with its drama and romance, these 30 similar films are what to watch next, and every pick says why it matches.

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  1. Fire with Fire (1986)

    A tough, street-smart kid serving a sentence in a state youth reformatory meets a beautiful, innocent girl studying at a nearby convent. When forbidden love blossoms between them, they must fight the prison authorities, their parents and the law.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama & romance

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  2. Endless Love (2014)

    A privileged girl and a charismatic boy's instant desire sparks a love affair made only more reckless by parents trying to keep them apart.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama & romance

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  3. The Truth About Jane (2000)

    High schooler Jane struggles with the self-discovery that she is a lesbian after developing an intense friendship with another girl. However, this is only the start of Jane's troubles when her unaccepting mother Janice also contends with the surprising revelation brought forth by her only daughter.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama & romance

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  4. Elena Undone (2010)

    The wife of a pastor who preaches against homosexuality embarks on an affair with a female writer.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama & romance

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  5. A Perfect Ending (2012)

    This intimate drama follows Rebecca, a woman who has kept her sexuality a secret from her friends but chooses to reveal it to a stranger. While Rebecca's revelations may not yield the results she expects, a perfect ending is still in reach.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama & romance

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  6. I Can't Think Straight (2008)

    Tala, a London-based Palestinian, is preparing for her elaborate Middle Eastern wedding when she meets Leyla, a young British Indian woman who is dating her best friend. Spirited Christian Tala and shy Muslim Leyla could not be more different from each other, but the attraction is immediate and goes deeper than friendship. But Tala is not ready to accept the implications of the choice her heart has made for her and escapes back to Jordan, while Leyla tries to move on with her new-found life, to the shock of her tradition-loving parents. As Tala's wedding day approaches, simmering tensions come to boiling point and the pressure mounts for Tala to be true to herself.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama & romance

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  7. Keith (2008)

    Natalie is high school royalty, but her queen bee status falls apart when she falls for the new guy at school. Although Keith ignores her at first, they soon become friends -- even though Natalie suspects that Keith has something to hide. As the free-spirited Keith shows Natalie how to embrace what life offers, they grow closer -- until a secret tests the bounds of their relationship

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama & romance

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  8. Lost and Delirious (2001)

    After starting at an upmarket boarding school, a teenage girl forms close friendships with her two older roommates. However, when she discovers that her new friends are lovers she finds herself caught in a complicated situation.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama & romance

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  9. My Policeman (2022)

    In the late 1990s, the arrival of elderly invalid Patrick into Marion and Tom’s home triggers the exploration of seismic events from 40 years previous: the passionate relationship between Tom and Patrick at a time when homosexuality was illegal.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama & romance

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  10. Camp Belvidere (2014)

    Camp Belvidere is a lesbian romance set in the 1950s about the coming of age of Camp Leader Rose and her forbidden encounter with Nurse Gin. It depicts the journey and evolution of a friendship into a romance between two women when their rapport would have been unlikely.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both romance & drama

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  11. The Object of My Affection (1998)

    A pregnant New York social worker begins to develop romantic feelings for her gay best friend, and decides she'd rather raise her child with him, much to the dismay of her overbearing boyfriend.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama & romance

  12. Heartstopper Forever (2026)

    It's a new school year for the Truham-Higgs gang. As Nick and Charlie's relationship deepens, their thoughts turn to life after the last bell rings.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both romance & drama

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  13. After (2019)

    Tessa Young is a dedicated student, dutiful daughter and loyal girlfriend to her high school sweetheart. Entering her first semester of college, Tessa's guarded world opens up when she meets Hardin Scott, a mysterious and brooding rebel who makes her question all she thought she knew about herself -- and what she wants out of life.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama & romance

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  14. Restless (2011)

    Two outsiders, both shaped by the circumstances that have brought them together, forge a deep and lasting love.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama & romance

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  15. Marked Men: Rule + Shaw (2025)

    Shaw Landon has loved Rule Archer from the moment she laid eyes on him. Rule, a fiery-tempered rebel tattoo artist, doesn’t have time for a good girl pre-med student like Shaw — even if she’s the only one who can see the person he truly is. She lives by other people’s rules; he makes his own. But a short skirt, too many birthday cocktails, and spilled secrets lead to a night neither can forget. Now, Shaw and Rule must figure out how a girl like her and a guy like him are supposed to be together without destroying their love…or each other.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both romance & drama

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  16. Looking: The Movie (2016)

    Patrick returns to San Francisco for the first time in almost a year to celebrate a momentous event with his old friends. In the process, he must face the unresolved relationships he left behind and make difficult choices about what’s important to him.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama & romance

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  17. Winter Spring Summer or Fall (2024)

    Remi and Barnes, two very different teenagers, meet by chance in the winter of their senior year, then spend four days together over the course of a year that will change their lives forever.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both romance & drama

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  18. Newness (2017)

    In contemporary Los Angeles, two millennials navigating a social media–driven hookup culture begin a relationship that pushes both emotional and physical boundaries.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both romance & drama

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  19. Departure (2016)

    An English mother and her teenage son spend a week preparing the sale of their remote holiday house in the South of France. Fifteen-year-old Elliot struggles with his dawning sexuality and an increasing alienation from his mother, Beatrice. She in turn is confronted by the realisation that her marriage to his father, Philip, has grown loveless and the life she knows is coming to an end. When an enigmatic local teenager, Clément, quietly enters their lives, both mother and son are compelled to confront their desires and, finally, each other.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama & romance

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  20. Not Easily Broken (2009)

    A car accident and shifting affections test the bond between a married couple.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama & romance

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  21. The Party (1980)

    A thirteen-year-old French girl deals with moving to a new city and school in Paris, while at the same time her parents are getting a divorce.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both drama & romance

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  22. How Do I Tell You This (2024)

    Two long-time internet friends - Ted, the hometown artist, and Liz, a globe-hopping humanitarian. On the night of his gallery opening, on a river that goes nowhere, they meet for the first time. Neither one knows that the other loves them.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both drama & romance

  23. Brokeback Mountain (2005)

    In 1960s Wyoming, two men develop a strong emotional and sexual relationship that endures as a lifelong connection complicating their lives as they get married and start families of their own.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both drama & romance

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  24. Tu Meri Zindagi Hai (2027)

    A self-destructive, tormented rockstar finds his life and love transformed through an intense romantic journey shaped by music and emotion.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both drama & romance

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  25. Desert Hearts (1985)

    While waiting for her divorce papers, a repressed literature professor finds herself unexpectedly attracted by a carefree, spirited young woman named Cay.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both drama & romance

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  26. All About My Mother (1999)

    Following the tragic death of her teenage son, Manuela travels from Madrid to Barcelona in an attempt to contact the long-estranged father the boy never knew. She reunites with an old friend, an outspoken transgender sex worker, and befriends a troubled actress and a pregnant, HIV-positive nun.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both drama

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  27. The War of the Roses (1989)

    Barbara and Oliver Rose live happily as a married couple. When Barbara starts to wonder what life would be like without Oliver and likes what she sees, the two begin a campaign to force each other to leave their house, with their divorce lawyer D'Amato caught in the middle.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both drama

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  28. Amélie (2001)

    At a tiny Parisian café, the adorable yet painfully shy Amélie accidentally discovers a gift for helping others. Soon Amelie is spending her days as a matchmaker, guardian angel, and all-around do-gooder. But when she bumps into a handsome stranger, will she find the courage to become the star of her very own love story?

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both romance

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  29. Maybe... Maybe Not (1994)

    The heterosexual man Axel is thrown out of his girlfriends home for cheating and ends up moving in with a gay man. Axel learns the advantages of living with gay men even though they are attracted to him and when his girlfriend wants him back he must make a tough decision.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both drama

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  30. Walk on Water (2004)

    Eyal, an Israeli Mossad agent, is given the mission to track down and kill the very old Alfred Himmelman, an ex-Nazi officer, who might still be alive. Pretending to be a tourist guide, he befriends his grandson Axel, in Israel to visit his sister Pia. The two men set out on a tour of the country, during which Axel challenges Eyal's values.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both drama

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Frequently asked questions

What are the best movies like Not Gonna Bother You?

The closest matches to Not Gonna Bother You are Fire with Fire (1986), Endless Love (2014) and The Truth About Jane (2000). Below are 27 more, each with the reason it matches.

What should I watch after Not Gonna Bother You?

Start with Fire with Fire (1986), the closest match to Not Gonna Bother You.

What is the highest-rated movie like Not Gonna Bother You?

Amélie (2001), rated 7.9/10 by 12,831 TMDB users.

What is the newest movie like Not Gonna Bother You?

Heartstopper Forever (2026) is the most recent release on this list.

How are movies similar to Not Gonna Bother You chosen?

First come films that Trakt’s viewers watch alongside Not Gonna Bother You, then TMDB’s recommendations and films it rates as similar in story and genre. Each pick says which signal put it there.

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