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Movies like To Love and Not Be Loved (2018)

The best movies like To Love and Not Be Loved (2018) are Wuthering Heights (1992), Maestro (2023) and “Wuthering Heights” (2026). If To Love and Not Be Loved hooked you, these 30 similar films are what to watch next, and every pick says why it matches.

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  1. Wuthering Heights (1992)

    Young orphan Heathcliff is adopted by the wealthy Earnshaw family and moves into their estate, Wuthering Heights. Soon, the new resident falls for his compassionate foster sister, Cathy. The two share a remarkable bond that seems unbreakable until Cathy, feeling the pressure of social convention, suppresses her feelings and marries Edgar Linton, a man of means who befits her stature. Heathcliff vows to win her back.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers

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  2. Maestro (2023)

    A towering and fearless love story chronicling the lifelong relationship between Leonard Bernstein and Felicia Montealegre Cohn Bernstein. A love letter to life and art, Maestro at its core is an emotionally epic portrayal of family and love.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers

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  3. “Wuthering Heights” (2026)

    Tragedy strikes when Heathcliff falls in love with Catherine Earnshaw, a woman from a wealthy family in 18th-century England.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers

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  4. Avanti! (1972)

    A successful businessman travels to Italy to arrange for the return of his tycoon father's body, only to learn that dear old dad died with his longtime mistress.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers

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  5. Valentino (1977)

    The untimely death of silent screen star Rudolph Valentino prompts the many women in his past to reminisce about his troubled rise to superstardom.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers

  6. The Sleeping Dictionary (2003)

    In the 1930s, British officer John Truscott journeys to a remote village in colonial Malaysia to educate and Westernize the local Iban population. There, he's introduced to the lovely Selima. In keeping with tradition, Selima is assigned to sleep with Truscott and teach him the native language and customs. But when they fall in love, both colonists and natives object to their plans to marry.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers

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  7. Have Dreams, Will Travel (2007)

    West Texas, in the 1960's. A tale of two 12-year-olds who embark on an adventure to find new parents in order to escape their unhappy and emotionally unsatisfying family life.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers

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  8. Lady Chatterley's Lover (2022)

    After a crippling injury leaves her husband impotent, Lady Chatterly is torn between her love for her husband and her physical desires. With her husband's consent, she seeks out other means of fulfilling her needs.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers

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  9. Tigertail (2020)

    A man reflects on the lost love of his youth and his long-ago journey from Taiwan to America as he begins to reconnect with his estranged daughter.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers

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  10. The Last Rifleman (2023)

    A WWII veteran escapes his care home in Northern Ireland and embarks on an arduous but inspirational journey to France to attend the 75th anniversary of the D-Day landings, finding the courage to face the ghosts of his past.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers

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  11. Solitary Man (2009)

    A car magnate watches his personal and professional life hit the skids because of his business and romantic indiscretions.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers

  12. June and John (2025)

    John leads an ordinary life with a monotonous routine. One day John runs into a woman on the subway who is as beautiful as she is mysterious named June. His encounter with her finally leads him to have a goal in his bumptious life.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers

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  13. Evita (1996)

    The hit musical based on the life of Evita Duarte, an Argentinian actress who eventually became the wife of Argentinian president Juan Perón, and the most beloved and hated woman in Argentina.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers

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  14. Washington Square (1997)

    In 1870s New York, spinster heiress Catherine Sloper is courted by the much younger, penniless Morris Townsend, much to the chagrin of her overprotective father. Catherine must decide whether to spend the rest of her life alone, or marry a man interested in her solely for her inheritence.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers

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  15. Wicker Park (2004)

    Matthew, a young advertising executive in Chicago, puts his life and a business trip to China on hold when he thinks he sees Lisa, the love of his life who left him without a word two years earlier, walking out of a restaurant one day.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers

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  16. Most (2003)

    A poetic and powerful story of a father forced to choose between love and duty.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers

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  17. The Landlord (1970)

    At the age of twenty-nine, Elgar Enders "runs away" from home. This running away consists of buying a building in a black ghetto in the Park Slope section of Brooklyn. Initially, his intention is to evict the black tenants and convert the building into a posh flat. But Elgar is not one to be bound by yesterday's urges, and soon he has other thoughts on his mind.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers

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  18. Wuthering Heights (1970)

    Young orphan Heathcliff is adopted by the wealthy Earnshaw family and moves into their estate, Wuthering Heights. Soon, the new resident falls for his compassionate foster sister, Cathy. The two share a remarkable bond that seems unbreakable until Cathy, feeling the pressure of social convention, suppresses her feelings and marries Edgar Linton, a man of means who befits her stature. Heathcliff vows to win her back.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers

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  19. Restless (2011)

    Two outsiders, both shaped by the circumstances that have brought them together, forge a deep and lasting love.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers

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  20. Reagan (2024)

    Told through the voice of former KGB agent Viktor Petrovich, whose life becomes inextricably linked with Ronald Reagan's when Reagan first caught the Soviets’ attention as an actor in Hollywood, Reagan overcomes the odds to become the 40th president of the United States.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers

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  21. Bear Creek (2017)

    A pack of friends in Denver's gay bear community go for the camping trip of a life time filled with fun, laughs and a hot encounter. It all seems innocent enough until a rampaging sociopath joins them ensuring a trip they'll never forget.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style

  22. Three Summer Days (2014)

    Little by little, a relationship develops between Gem, a teenager fascinated by tattoos, and his best friend that goes beyond just friendship.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style

  23. Coffee House Chronicles: The Movie (2016)

    This film, based on the web series, features nine vignettes in the lives of LGBT people as they date and hook up in Los Angeles.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style

  24. The Wind, in the Evening (2004)

    Nightfall. Marco, a politician, is murdered while he is going home. Also Luca, a gay man, is going home, where his partner Paolo is waiting. But he is on the killer's way, and he is shot. Paolo dashes to the hospital but the doctor doesn't want to tell him anything because Paolo isn't a "real" relative. Luca dies. Paolo starts walking in the streets of the town, where his loneliness will be ever misunderstood. A barman tries to comfort him supposing he was discharged by his girlfriend. Luca's mother orders Paolo to leave the house. A guy takes Paolo to him's, looking for a partner in the night. Paolo runs away from everybody, also from his friend Francesca: she says she is understanding but she can't. While the dawn is coming, Paolo reads about the murders on the newspapers, and realizes that what happened was reality.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style

  25. Baby Shark (2005)

    This treatise on teens behaving badly takes three separate approaches to its theme. In the first story, a hottie skater boy asks a bored, young heterosexual couple to sexually indulge him. In the second story, a boy/girl couple contends with a nerd who clings to the boy after class each day. In the third and final story, an attractive young guy puts the moves on his identical twin brother's girlfriend.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style

  26. Per Rectum (2005)

    One day a young man named Gleb decides one day to abandon ... his gay orientation. With the help of ex-boyfriend Vladik, he tries to establish his new “male” life, but everywhere he stumbles on his own kind, or on primordially Russian homophobia, which ultimately leads him to a tragic and paradoxical ending in the form of death from above.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style

  27. The Game (2017)

    Eight teenagers gather for a game of spin-the-bottle — with surprising results.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style

  28. Drowsiness (2008)

    The emotional inertia and chaos affecting a narcoleptic woman, a fatally ill writer and a gay doctor, and their attempts to escape from their dead-end situations.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style

  29. Gaydar (2013)

    Alvin Yapan’s latest work casts a refreshing take on modern relationships as he takes on the themes of romantic obsession, real identities and perhaps, true love. Tina’s love live seems doomed as every guy she falls for turns out to be…into other guys. She vows never to fall in love again and seeks solace in the company of her gay best friend Nick. Her life gets a turnaround when she meets a handsome FX driver that unleashes a dizzying string of surprises.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style

  30. Kenneth Williams: Fantabulosa! (2006)

    Kenneth Williams was the star of the Carry Ons and Round the Horne. Despite his fame, he led a life full of mental torture as he tried to overcome his homosexuality in 1950s Britain. This film follows his life and eventual death based on the many diaries he kept

    Why it matches: Similar story and style

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Frequently asked questions

What are the best movies like To Love and Not Be Loved?

The closest matches to To Love and Not Be Loved are Wuthering Heights (1992), Maestro (2023) and “Wuthering Heights” (2026). Below are 27 more, each with the reason it matches.

What should I watch after To Love and Not Be Loved?

Start with Wuthering Heights (1992), the closest match to To Love and Not Be Loved.

What is the highest-rated movie like To Love and Not Be Loved?

Avanti! (1972), rated 6.9/10 by 284 TMDB users.

What is the newest movie like To Love and Not Be Loved?

“Wuthering Heights” (2026) is the most recent release on this list.

Are there English movies like To Love and Not Be Loved?

Yes: Wuthering Heights (1992), Maestro (2023) and “Wuthering Heights” (2026).

How are movies similar to To Love and Not Be Loved chosen?

First come films that Trakt’s viewers watch alongside To Love and Not Be Loved, then TMDB’s recommendations and films it rates as similar in story and genre. Each pick says which signal put it there.

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