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Movies like Our Happy Lives (1999)

The best movies like Our Happy Lives (1999) are A Nos Amours (1983), Nine Lives (2005) and Not Easily Broken (2009). If Our Happy Lives hooked you with its drama and romance, these 30 similar films are what to watch next, and every pick says why it matches.

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  1. A Nos Amours (1983)

    Fifteen-year-old Suzanne seeks refuge from a disintegrating family in a series of impulsive, promiscuous affairs. Her fulsome sexuality further ratchets up the suppressed passions of her narcissistic brother, insecure mother and brooding, authoritarian father.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama & romance

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  2. Nine Lives (2005)

    Captives of the very relationships that define and sustain them, nine women resiliently meet the travails and disappointments of life.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama & romance

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  3. Not Easily Broken (2009)

    A car accident and shifting affections test the bond between a married couple.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama & romance

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  4. White Wedding (1989)

    A philosophy professor has an illicit affair with one of his students, a bright yet troubled girl who lives alone.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama & romance

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  5. The Little Sister (2025)

    When Fatima leaves her close-knit suburban family to study philosophy in Paris, she finds herself caught between her religious upbringing and the freedom of student life in the city.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama & romance

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  6. The Lost Husband (2020)

    Trying to put her life back together after the death of her husband, Libby and her children move to her estranged Aunt's goat farm in central Texas.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama & romance

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  7. Newness (2017)

    In contemporary Los Angeles, two millennials navigating a social media–driven hookup culture begin a relationship that pushes both emotional and physical boundaries.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both romance & drama

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  8. Boy Meets Girl (1984)

    In Paris at night, a young aspiring filmmaker grapples with heartbreak after his girlfriend leaves him for his best friend. After a failed attempt to confront his friend, he wanders the streets and encounters a girl who has just been abandoned. Their paths cross at a party, bringing together two tormented souls.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama & romance

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  9. Fire with Fire (1986)

    A tough, street-smart kid serving a sentence in a state youth reformatory meets a beautiful, innocent girl studying at a nearby convent. When forbidden love blossoms between them, they must fight the prison authorities, their parents and the law.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama & romance

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  10. No Limit (2022)

    Roxana Aubrey decides to drop her studies and escape her life in Paris for a free diving course in the south of France. She is quickly pulled into a life that reaches new depths brought by the weight of an ocean's descent.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama & romance

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  11. Time Is Up (2021)

    Vivien, an accomplished student with a passion for physics, and Roy, a troubled young man, are involved in an accident that forces them to reclaim their lives one minute at the time.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both romance & drama

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  12. Love Everlasting (2016)

    Bridger is a young outsider who's always wanted more. He and his mother flee an abusive home, eventually finding a small town in the middle of nowhere. Once there, Bridger finds true acceptance with another misfit.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both romance & drama

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  13. Life in a Year (2020)

    A 17 year old finds out that his girlfriend is dying, so he sets out to give her an entire life, in the last year she has left.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama & romance

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  14. Flamingo Road (1949)

    A stranded carnival dancer takes on a corrupt political boss when she marries into small-town society.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama & romance

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  15. My King (2015)

    Tony is admitted to a rehabilitation center after a serious ski accident. Dependent on the medical staff and pain relievers, she takes time to look back on a turbulent relationship that she experienced with Georgio.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama & romance

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  16. Cesar and Rosalie (1972)

    A young woman becomes entangled with a successful businessman, but her ex tries to win her back, provoking intense jealousy that leads her to reconsider her choice. Ultimately, one man's actions force a resolution to her dilemma.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both romance & drama

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  17. Wander Darkly (2020)

    New parents Adrienne and Matteo are forced to reckon with trauma amidst their troubled relationship. They must revisit the memories of their past and unravel haunting truths in order to face their uncertain future.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both romance & drama

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  18. The Secret: Dare to Dream (2020)

    A widow with three children hires a handyman to fix her house during a major storm. When not doing home repairs, he shares his philosophy of believing in the power of the universe to deliver what we want.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama & romance

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  19. Ali and Nino (2016)

    Muslim prince Ali and Georgian aristocrat Nino have grown up in the Russian province of Azerbaijan. Their tragic love story sees the outbreak of the First World War and the world’s struggle for Baku’s oil. Ultimately they must choose to fight for their country’s independence or for each other.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama & romance

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  20. The Man from Elysian Fields (2001)

    A failed novelist's inability to pay the bills strains relations with his wife and leads him to work at an escort service, where he becomes entwined with a wealthy woman whose husband is a successful writer.

    Why it matches: Recommended by TMDB viewers · both drama & romance

  21. Princess Cyd (2017)

    High school athlete Cyd Loughlin lives alone with her depressive father in South Carolina, perpetually longing to get away from it all. When her aunt, famous novelist Miranda Ruth, agrees to host her for a few weeks during the summer, Cyd jumps at the opportunity. While there, she falls for a girl in the neighborhood, even as she and her aunt gently challenge each other in the realms of sex and spirit.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both romance & drama

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  22. Plus. Minus. (2019)

    Told in reverse chronological order, an aspiring drag queen creates a world out of desolated motel rooms with the guy he met online.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both romance & drama

  23. The Art of Being Straight (2009)

    Twenty-three-year-old John has just moved to L.A. from New York, ostensibly "taking a break" from his longtime girlfriend. He moves in with college bro Andy, whose pals incessantly do that kind of "That is so gay" banter that's essentially harmless - unless you're the only gay guy in the room.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both drama & romance

  24. The Blue Lagoon (1980)

    Two small children and a ship's cook survive a shipwreck and find safety on an idyllic tropical island. Soon, however, the cook dies and the young boy and girl are left on their own. Days become years and Emmeline and Richard make a home for themselves surrounded by exotic creatures and nature's beauty. But will they ever see civilization again?

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both drama & romance

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  25. Screwed (2018)

    Seventeen-year-olds Miku and Elias find themselves, and each other, during a summer in the Finnish countryside.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both romance & drama

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  26. Akvaariorakkaus (1993)

    Waitress Saara meets handsome journalist Joni, and soon moves in to live with him. Joni tries his best to satisfy Saara sexually but, disturbed by violent lesbian fantasies, she is unable to experience orgasm. Trying to cope with the situation, Saara has another brief affair back in her old home town.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both drama & romance

  27. Revolutionary Girl Utena: The Movie (1999)

    In a loose retelling of the Revolutionary Girl Utena TV series, Utena Tenjou arrives at Ohtori Academy, only to be immediately swept up in a series of duels for the hand of her classmate Anthy Himemiya and the power she supposedly holds. At the same time, Utena reunites with Touga Kiryuu, a friend from her childhood who seems to know the secrets behind the duels. Utena must discover those secrets for herself, before the power that rules Ohtori claims her and her friends, new and old.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both drama & romance

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  28. Maybe... Maybe Not (1994)

    The heterosexual man Axel is thrown out of his girlfriends home for cheating and ends up moving in with a gay man. Axel learns the advantages of living with gay men even though they are attracted to him and when his girlfriend wants him back he must make a tough decision.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both drama

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  29. Bad Education (2004)

    When an old friend brings filmmaker Enrique Goded a semi-autobiographical script chronicling their adolescence, Enrique is forced to relive his youth spent at a Catholic boarding school. Weaving through past and present, the script follows a transvestite performer who reconnects with a grade school sweetheart. Spurred on by this chance encounter, the character reflects on her childhood sexual victimization and the trauma of closeting her sexual orientation.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both drama

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  30. Being John Malkovich (1999)

    One day at work, unsuccessful puppeteer Craig finds a portal into the head of actor John Malkovich. The portal soon becomes a passion for anybody who enters its mad and controlling world of overtaking another human body.

    Why it matches: Similar story and style · both drama

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Frequently asked questions

What are the best movies like Our Happy Lives?

The closest matches to Our Happy Lives are A Nos Amours (1983), Nine Lives (2005) and Not Easily Broken (2009). Below are 27 more, each with the reason it matches.

What should I watch after Our Happy Lives?

Start with A Nos Amours (1983), the closest match to Our Happy Lives.

What is the highest-rated movie like Our Happy Lives?

Life in a Year (2020), rated 8.2/10 by 2,027 TMDB users.

What is the newest movie like Our Happy Lives?

The Little Sister (2025) is the most recent release on this list.

Are there French movies like Our Happy Lives?

Yes: A Nos Amours (1983), White Wedding (1989) and The Little Sister (2025).

How are movies similar to Our Happy Lives chosen?

First come films that Trakt’s viewers watch alongside Our Happy Lives, then TMDB’s recommendations and films it rates as similar in story and genre. Each pick says which signal put it there.

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